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I met South African Paralympic star Oscar Pistorius last year before the London 2012 Olympics at an Oakley media launch.

The media loved every second of him. He was modest, a focused athlete, extremely confident of his chances at the Olympics and Paralympics and smiled shyly when a journalist asked if there was somebody in his life.

There wasn’t.

He was single and very focused on what he had to do at the Olympics.

That’s what mattered to Oscar. He was so humble, well-spoken and shy, and my admiration grew. His apparent confidence on the track is well-known.

He knew no boundaries while running and that’s what made him more likeable: that he did not feel that there was something he couldn’t do. Behind the firm poise on the track, Oscar seemed a gentle heart in person.

Pistorious

Pistorius

In London, South Africa’s hero gave us something to smile about. Here was a double amputee running with able-bodied superstars.

He was making history and he was wearing the green and gold, holding the South African flag high after his finish.

The standout feature was Oscar. Back home in South Africa, there was so much applause for Oscar’s feats.

He was setting an example for humans to do the unthinkable; despite disability, despite setbacks, despite criticism of his enhanced blades.

A few months later, Oscar is in the news for the wrong reasons. Last Thursday morning, the South African news networks plastered photographs of the sports hero with headlines that read: ‘Oscar shoots girlfriend’. It seemed far-fetched; it seemed  too sick a headline to believe.

The revelations grew – Oscar was taken to the police station in Pretoria and more disclosures on Oscar’s girlfriend Reeva Steenkamp became front-pages across the world.

First, the reports were that Oscar had mistaken Reeva for an intruder and shot her. It escalated into a case that goes unanswered and seems completely riveting.

News sites have given us reports that suggest that Oscar was a “player”, had an obsession with guns and an aggressive character.

Pistorius

Pistorius and Steenkamp

Today, on Tuesday 19 February, Oscar sat in court while the State and Defence went head to head in his bail appeal.

The State reported that the case is one of ‘premeditated murder’ whereby he got up from his bed in the early hours of Valentine’s Day, put on his prosthetic legs and shot Reeva four times through the bathroom door.

The Defence stuck to its claims that Oscar mistook Reeva for a burglar. There are so many versions we are yet to hear in the case but the consequences of Oscar’s actions will most definitely change his future.

After the proceedings, the Judge ordered Oscar to be officially charged with premeditated murder.

So far, Nike and Oakley have pulled their Oscar adverts as well as a few television networks in South Africa who picked Oscar as their poster boy.

And what a poster boy he was. It all seems a little surreal for any South African at the moment. We are given so much hope through out beloved heroes that give the world a new outlook on humankind.

After Lance Armstrong’s doping scandal, Tiger Woods’ infidelity and Oscar’s case at the moment, do we have room to look up to any sporting greats? Perhaps it’s our own fault for putting these personalities on a pedestal.

Perhaps it’s a little naïve to think that these sporting heroes will do no wrong. We can deny and stand by our heroes all we want.

We can side with the ‘they’re just human’ reasoning behind it all but one thing is for sure – no one is perfect.

While Oscar Pistorius made massive strides in the athletics world – for disabled and able-bodied athletes alike – he seems a character shaded by flaws.

I guess there’s a media persona that no hero can ever live up to.

The Oscar case will be one in the media eye – South Africa’s own OJ Simpson type case whereby heroes that are high in regard at first, fall the hardest.

Lauren van der Vyver

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  • Donald

    well put Lauren

  • Jeanne-Ann Stott

    Well written Lauren. As someone on television said last night, we should allow celebrities to be human. We make them superhuman, creating unrealistic expectations. Our projected expectations inevitably leads to disappointment. In this case, profound disappointment. I don’t know the truth of the matter but my inner sense is that this is a great and stark spriritual teaching – fear kills love. We don’t know the inner world of celebrities and high achievers, or the man next door. The persona anyone presents to the world or the media is seldom the real person deep inside. We all have our shadow and it’s possible that Oscar’s very achievements were driven by deep-seated fears. One article said that he had a great fear of crime, having had death threats made on his life. Fear distorts things and perception in that raw moment, most certainly could have resulted in a tragic (and I do believe unintended) reality. On the other side, there is dark cruelty in the quick judgements people have made from every angle, and the ‘hangmans’ determination to make him guilty and wrong. I am praying for fair trial in accordance with divine law, rather than human law. Everyone of us following this story needs to self-reflect and ask what it mirrors for us. Fear = False expectations appearing real. In that moment, the fear was real for him and he acted on that. It’s so sad, Jeanne-Ann (I went to school with your mom, also studied Journ at Rhodes, back in the bad 80s:)

  • Jeanne-Ann Stott

    Glad you mentioned it. Speaking of it being SA’s own OJ Simpson-type case…on Iconoclasts, Christiane Amanpour spoke of the conscience she still caries about that time in American media history. Across the Atlantic, genocide was happening in Rwanda while all were distracted with the drama and sensationalism of the OJ story. She felt that had the media’s attention been on Rwanda instead, 1000s of life could have potentially been spared. One big media story is often the smokescreen for another far bigger one – and we generally find out too late.

  • http://www.facebook.com/lauren.vyver Lauren Vd Vyver

    Thanks for the feedback guys! and thanks Jeanne-Ann! It’s a very sad, sensationalist case. I do hope it’s a fair trial but it all seems a trial by media/public at the moment.

 
 
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